We definitely need more sex positivity in society, but I personally would draw the line on disregarding protection. This is an extended advice column, that mostly rings the right bells; but in the end it's an extended advice column. I agree with his notion that being more open and honest about sex can lead to a less stigmatized world. I appreciated the open and honest manner in which Zane discusses the role of kink in queer sex and how easy it is for bedroom-related shame to seep into the everyday lives of LGBTQ+ folks: withdrawal, lashing out, difficulty trusting and fostering connection. Are you able to stay in the moment to experience the sex parties, naked yoga, and all these other encounters that your readers can only fantasize about?

I respect that Queer Majority has a fucking opinion and goes against the grain in a way I really appreciate. Zachary Zane is a Brooklyn-based columnist, sex expert, and activist whose work focuses on sexuality, culture, and the LGBTQ community. I didn't agree with everything he stood for in the book (I believe his perspective on STIs will challenge a lot of people), but at least he's out there pushing envelopes, you know? This quote right here is something I feel so strongly about, and I hope that others who read this book, who haven’t embraced their own gross sex goblin side, get a chance to see that there’s nothing to be ashamed or guilty over for engaging in what gets the loins goin’.So that gives you a flavor of what you're in for with this book, though tbh, there are far fewer descriptions of sexual encounters than you might assume. Genuinely sad that I'm giving this book a two-star rating, but I feel it has to be done for reasons that will become clear later in this review. this is mainly a manifesto about how everyone wants to sleep with zachary zane, with all the insights you’d expect from a successful cis white guy who thinks being bisexual makes him an authority on queer issues.

He attended the "Bisexual White House Briefing" at the White House (under Obama) and has been featured as an expert on a number of podcasts, including "The Savage Lovecast" and “Whoreible Decisions. Now, I’m very comfortable with sex, everyone who knows me knows it’s my favourite topic of discussion and that I can talk for hours about puking, pissing and whatever else picks my fancy for the day, which is why Boyslut felt like I was chatting with an old friend. Our newest dildo, BI AMOR, celebrates bisexual pride in honor of Zachary Zane’s new book, Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto. It is individual journey and growth as a person, as to say, bisexuality or as the matter of fact any other sexuality, is not a phase, it’s just who we are, people cannot simply choose to be straight, gay, asexual, etc.This book invites you to reflect on your sexual identity and approach to such conversations; how societal programming enforces a feeling of shame when discussing sex.

Thanks to modern medicine, we can enjoy sex without the fear of contracting HIV […] I want to have the best sex I can.

htm), and every avoidable infection now being treated with cephalosporins represents another tiny increment toward resistance to those as well. Despite all the negative thoughts, I think this book could be really beneficial to some and for that I can't say it was awful.